Today, while driving around in Bengaluru, i saw a couple (probably newly married) who were totally loving each other's company, cuddling, etc .... As my thoughts raced further one line got stuck in my head..."FALLING in love"...This kind of made me wonder, Why the hell we all say that we FALL in love. Why don't we ever say (usually) the we Rise in love???
I started to look back into my life and search for the answer....there are relations from which when u come out and realize that it was definitely not worth it...u were never urself with that person.. u were always a Person who HE/SHE wanted u to be...behaved according to him/her...tried ur level best to please him/her forgetting at every point what u actually are, what u always wanted to be... u just feel like giving up all ur dreams and unfortunately sometimes even ur values coz u feel u have fallen in love and this is how it is supposed to be... yes... indeed....u have done nothing, but FALLEN.....Fallen way down...not in Love my dear friends but i guess in life overall..... Because if a person can't love himself the way he/she is, keeps on changing according to the people around...that person can never love....
Then there are relations which make u belive in ur dreams, which give u strength to fight the world the way u are. These are the relations which sometimes even make u aware of certain qualities in u which probably were latent and when these come up u are like...... ZAPPED!!!! such relationships bring out the best in u personally and professionally, make ur dreams come true....U dont try to make the other person happy because he/she already is, by seeing u happy!!!! Somewhat selfless, way too much strengthening and enlighting!!! These are the ones which make u go week in the knees..........and hence u FALL....FALL too much deep in love......and RISE in life.....
he he he he i dont know whether it would be correct english but i would love to call it......"FALLINGLY RISING IN LOVE"
I started to look back into my life and search for the answer....there are relations from which when u come out and realize that it was definitely not worth it...u were never urself with that person.. u were always a Person who HE/SHE wanted u to be...behaved according to him/her...tried ur level best to please him/her forgetting at every point what u actually are, what u always wanted to be... u just feel like giving up all ur dreams and unfortunately sometimes even ur values coz u feel u have fallen in love and this is how it is supposed to be... yes... indeed....u have done nothing, but FALLEN.....Fallen way down...not in Love my dear friends but i guess in life overall..... Because if a person can't love himself the way he/she is, keeps on changing according to the people around...that person can never love....
Then there are relations which make u belive in ur dreams, which give u strength to fight the world the way u are. These are the relations which sometimes even make u aware of certain qualities in u which probably were latent and when these come up u are like...... ZAPPED!!!! such relationships bring out the best in u personally and professionally, make ur dreams come true....U dont try to make the other person happy because he/she already is, by seeing u happy!!!! Somewhat selfless, way too much strengthening and enlighting!!! These are the ones which make u go week in the knees..........and hence u FALL....FALL too much deep in love......and RISE in life.....
he he he he i dont know whether it would be correct english but i would love to call it......"FALLINGLY RISING IN LOVE"
